A Review of eHarmonyWrite your own review of eHarmony! Reviewed By: John Location: Midwest Sex: Male Rating: ***** Date: November 25, 2007 No zero stars available. I was working an all day 5 days a week job. I'm not a loser but I had no time to meet anyone. I tried EH because it was supposed to be a free trial. I found the same problems. If you don't pay, you get nothing. After a month I went to cancel but didn't scroll down enough to see the submit button so I ended up with another month. Then I met someone and thought it was fate. I had to pay another month as the 2nd month was running out. We met and got along great. I was impressed and told other people to try EH. We talked about the future and it looked good. Then we got married. Suddenly the rules changed and I had to be someone I wasn't in order to keep from arguing. She said I lied about who I was, but I didn't. I even told her things about my past that I don't talk to anyone about anymore. We've been married several years now. All the money we had combined when we got married is gone because my wife has never gotten a job. She lays in bed all day blaming everything on me. I keep working my physical job which is beating the hell out of my body in order to make the money to support 2 people. She has been told by several doctors and counselors before me and with me that she suffers from depression. Myself, family, and close friends believe she is bipolar. She denies that she has a problem and says it's my fault because I turned away from her after our wedding. I'm not a bad guy but I got burned by a system that can't spot a mental case. Think about this before you try any dating site. My wife threatens to burn my house down that I have lived in for almost 20 years if I don't give her X amount of dollars. Even though she is the cause of my life's savings being gone, I'm entitled to nothing out of this according to her. One minute she screems divorce and the next is making plans for our future. By the way, she's in bed right now and it's 2 in the afternoon on my first day of vacation. The one she's been screaming about me getting for months now. When vacation is over, she'll blame me because we didn't do anything. Unfortunately I would have to use my charge cards (which are maxxed out) in order to go somewhere. I wish I still had my money and single life back. I have met several women in the past couple years that would like to date me. Of course this has to happen after I get married. Incidentally EH has continued to send us emails about meeting that special someone even though we responded back several times telling them we got married. Almost like they were thinking "Yeah right". |