I have been on EH several times over the last 4 years. I finally finured out they are a scam. I found that 90% of the matches close before I even get to review their profile. I also discovered that most of the matches were men who joined on a free weekend trial and by the time you get to stage 2 their trial has ended. When I contacted EH with my concerns of low response, the mans response was my values were too high. He suggested I lower my values to get more responses. I am a Christian, that doesn't work for me. It is a lot of money for what they claim to provide, if they were really providing solid matches it wouldn't be so bad. Neil Clark Will have to answer for this to a HIGHER power one day. In the mean time I'm sure he is laughing all the way to the bank. I suggest thinking of places in your community where you can meet other singles. Malls, grocery stores, book stores, coffee shops, but I do not recommend bars. Good luck!