I read all the complaints re: eharmony I have been signed up for over 1 month I've receive over 150 matches not saying I would go out with all of them if anything its been a little overwhelming trying to respond to everyone.at present I'm in open communication with 8 men at this time. 2 live 2.5 hrs away but I'm going to take a chance and take a road trip (SAFE ROAD TRIP)The other 6 live within 45mi. I don't believe I'm going to meet my soul mate but I'm sure I will meet a couple of new friends or I'll be chopped up in a field somewhere if I don't be careful. But I do have all my safety factors in check.I checked out match .com I would feel like I was in a meat dept. debra