E-harmony did nothing for me but take my money. I paid for 3 months and in that time they took forever to find appropriate matches for me, I think about 13, none of those initial ones in my state. When I tried communicating with those they did not even acknowledge my ice brakers. I cleared them off and the new ones had no pictures and only a couple were even from my state. They said if I would change my preferences to those of someone more generic I would get more matches. In other words if I am generic I can make plenty of generic matches, but if unique forget it. This was untrue too by the way. They suck so hard, screw them, please don't give them money unless you are just generic Americana enough it won't work for you either. Honestly, anonymous in Albuquerque. Local link ups are much better.