It cracks me up to hear folks say eharmony is too expensive! If one spends $5 a day for a coffee drink, or perhaps far much more out at a restaurant and bar, why wouldn't one spend money for a dating service that might match them with a life long partner?

I'm not a Christian and I have given eharmony a shot at least once a year for the three month subscription.

They certainly don't discriminate against the non-believers.

I have closed over 800 profiles in the last three years and I been matched with many men who appeared very professional and communicated well. I have met some great guys and some not so emotionally healthy guys. I'd say the luck I have with eharmony is about the same luck I have in person.

Eharmony is just another singles bar, but more safe and slower.

The truth is that no match on paper can truly measure that chemistry we feel in person. It is that non-verbal, face-to-face communication that will either pass or not pass the test of chemistry. I have met the full gamut of men and no matter how well matched we seem, there is just something else in control of the attraction. I know within minutes of meeting whether or not I am attracted to a guy.

And there have been just as many guys not into me as there were those I was not into. But ya gotta just keep trying and have fun while you do.

Unfortunetly it just comes down to old school physical attraction-- and looks aren't necessarily the tool used to measure this. Personality is huge. One thing is for sure: You have got to be at a physically and emotionally healthy point in your life. If you aren't happy and healthy and confident in yourself it will certainly come through in your profile.

Eharmony is certainly worth the money and patience for the posibility of finding a life partner. Why would you settle for anything less than love?