I have been on this site for a while, and I don't have too many complaints since the price is right. Had some dates, but nothing ever materialized. The quality of the girls, may be a tiny bit lower than the "paid" sites but it's negligible. On the plus side, vs. paid is that when you send out an email you are certain that the recipient can respond. Almost all paid sites, have "non-members" profiles up which have no way of responding so you waste lots of time emailing with no point. Of course, it carries many of the same pitfalls as paid sites such as a male to female ratio of around 5 to 1. (this is not a problem for females). One thing to note, it has a kind of quirky feature where you can have your picture rated. Warning, do not post your picture for ratings unless you want the remaining bit of self confidence you have destroyed. I am an avg looking guy, and I got rated a 2.8 out of 10. I would recommend it to anybody to try. Worst thing, you just wasted a bit of time.