i was surprised about all the negative reviews of true. yes those winks are a lot of crap sometimes but when u sign up it asks u if u want them to 1.send winks for u to help u get started 2. send memebers who they think are compatible for u winks from ur account and 3.allow members who have seen ur profile to automatically send them winks. its on like the last page when u edit ur details on the very bottoms its easy to miss all u have to do is uncheck those three boxes. then its just like all the other sites weeding thru the fakes. i actually met a nice guy off here n since it was free when i joined earlier this year it never cost me anything. so overall i liked this better than when i tried PerfectMatc..that was truelly a waste of my money! paysites do not have more memebers.