Next month I will have been on eHarmony for five years. I am still single. There has only been one significant relationship generated by eHarmony. That individual was a "con artist" who "marked" me early in our relationship as someone who could be skillfully manipulated out of all my savings and my property. He is still suing me at every opportunity.

I have been on dates with other individuals matched by eHarmony. I do not understand the matching criteria, but these men are nothing like me. They are very nice (and I hope they all find the woman of their dreams) but they are not even close to being right for me.

I hope eHarmony takes a look at their matching system and finds some way to connect people who are compatable.