I'm just wanted some honest opinions about this site. So I am a relatively attractive female but I have a really hard time finding decent guys with the lifestyle I live. I work on weekdays and I go out on weekends. Most of the guys I meet are either cocky douche bags or just guys I'm not attracted to. It is really frustrating me because I am not the type of girl to just hook up. I want to at least find a meaningful friendship with people i meet. Now after checking out the site, I notice that there is an overabundance of good looking women on the site and not nearly as many attractive men. One would think that with this ratio the men would be getting a ton of emails from attractive women, while the women are having a hard time competing for the same guys. In fact I am so intimidated by the number of pretty girls that I don't even want to join the site due to heavy competition.

Do you all feel the same way or no? Keep in mind I am in my mid 20s and looking for someone in their mid to late twenties, no kids, no divorce, etc. I am sure the dynamic would be different in other age groups.

It would be great if 20 somethings gave me their opinion on this site. Thank you!